Hierarchy of reaction to negative actions VS. 'proximity of people'. The closer the proximity to the person or persons the higher the reaction to negative actions. Simply put it, if I am not close to you practically anything or even everything you do would be a rats ass (equivalent to being utterly invisible). However if you are loved or cared for in any way possible, being on the serving/receiving end end a negative action, be it tineetiny or of mammoth proportions, would be worldly upsetting.  (being my world and not literally of the worldly sense.)

Time to draw life graphs for documentation purposes.

When will I ever write a book, I wonder.